You have been blessed with a kind heart, but also possess a strong desire for sexual exploration. However, this duality can sometimes interfere with your fetishes since you don't want to hurt your partner. You have an interest in BDSM but struggle with the conflict between your desires and your soft-hearted nature.

If you're considering exploring BDSM as a Dom, it's important to remember that most couples who engage in kinky activities typically start small and work their way up gradually. You can do the same by purchasing essential tools like handcuffs, a blindfold, and a simple yet effective slapper such as the Vintage Style Bondage Paddle.

The paddle is made of thick, genuine cowhide and is dyed in raw black to give it an authentic 'aged' appearance. It has a classic spanker shape that matches the form of your palm, ensuring it won't extend beyond your hands' coverage. The paddle's edges are decorated with holes where horizontal strips of ramie rope are attached, knotted to the other side of the surface to keep them in place. This design not only adds texture but also enhances the overall spanking experience, leaving arousing marks on your lover's butt cheeks.

The wooden handle is ergonomically carved for maximum comfort and durability, with a detailed engraving adding to its appeal.

If you're hesitant about exploring BDSM, take it slow and start with basic tools like the Vintage Style Bondage Paddle. Remember, if you want to be a Dom, you have to start somewhere.