In your late thirties, you may find that penetrative sex no longer excites you. The act of inserting your penis into a vagina or anus may have become dull and repetitive. You may be seeking something more intense, something that takes you out of this world.

Have you considered exploring BDSM? This type of sexual play involves punishment and torture, and if you are interested in being punished rather than dominating the relationship, you could start by using a tool on yourself.

One such device is the Stainless Cock and Ball Restraint Torture Device. Made from high-quality stainless steel and polished to perfection, this device comes with a penis sleeve, a ring, six bolts, a fastening T-rod, two keys, and a key-in-level lock. The sleeve comes in one size, and the penis ring comes in four sizes, ranging from 1.42 inches to 1.97 inches in diameter.

To use the device, fasten the hook on one end of the sleeve to the ring, then insert your penis into the mechanism. Carefully use the T-rod to screw the bolts into the six nuts around the metal sleeve, either screwing them all the way in for total caging, or partially screwing them to allow part of the glans to stick out. Either way, your penis will be restrained and prevented from having an erection, with the sharp, pointed ends of the bolts pricking it if you try.

Using this device, you can train your penis and gauge your pain tolerance, helping you to explore BDSM play further. It may change your perspective on non-penetrative sex, and it's available for purchase now.

Specifications for the Stainless Cock and Ball Restraint Torture Device include a silver color/type, stainless steel material, and a cage length of 2.95 inches (75 mm) and a cage diameter of 1.30 inches (33 mm). The rings come in sizes ranging from 1.42 inches to 1.97 inches in diameter.